Paul gives his readers plenty of time to recognize the problem in someone else.
Romans 1 describes humanity exchanging the truth of God for a lie, turning from the Creator and giving its attention to created things. It is a picture of people searching for life in places that cannot sustain it. We can read those words and find plenty to recognize in the world around us. Then Paul moves into chapter two, and suddenly the view changes. The person watching, evaluating, and judging is drawn into the conversation too.
“You must be born again.”
Imagine hearing those words after spending your life learning about God. Nicodemus had devoted himself to understanding what it meant to live faithfully, and Jesus was inviting him into something beyond everything he had learned. He spoke of a new birth, a life that comes from God Himself. Nicodemus struggled to understand how such a thing could happen, and his questions opened a conversation that reaches into our own lives.
The Things We Carry
We all have ways of understanding where we stand with God. For some, confidence comes from years of attending church, serving others, studying Scripture, or trying to live with integrity. Those are meaningful expressions of faith, and they can become deeply woven into our identity. Over time, though, we may begin to lean on them as evidence that we have earned God's approval.
Others carry a very different story. Past decisions, painful memories, or a sense of personal failure can leave someone wondering how God could possibly welcome them. Even when they hear about His love, something inside hesitates. They know their own history too well, and the thought of being fully known by God can feel uncomfortable.
Paul addresses both experiences in his letter to the Romans. After describing humanity's tendency to turn away from God, he arrives at a conclusion that includes every person.
“For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God's glorious standard.” Romans 3:23 (NLT)
That word everyone matters. Paul places the respected religious leader alongside the person who has spent years running from God. The person with an impressive history of service stands alongside the person carrying a lifetime of regrets. Each of us comes with a story, and every story reveals our need for the life God gives. After bringing everyone to the same place, Paul introduces two words that change the direction of everything he has been saying.
But now.
When God Steps In
After spending the first part of his letter describing humanity's shared need for God, Paul turns our attention toward what God has done in response. Everything he has written about sin, the law, and our inability to make ourselves righteous leads to this declaration:
“But now God has shown us a way to be made right with him without keeping the requirements of the law.” Romans 3:21 (NLT)
Paul is describing something God has already done. Throughout Scripture, God's law reveals His goodness and helps us recognize the ways our lives have wandered from His purposes. It gives us an honest picture of ourselves, including the places we would prefer to overlook.
Think about looking into a mirror and noticing something on your face. The mirror allows you to see what needs attention, and that awareness is helpful. Yet seeing the problem leaves you needing something else to deal with it. In a similar way, God's law reveals our need for forgiveness and restoration.
And this is where Jesus enters the picture.
Paul explains that God makes people right with Himself through faith in Jesus Christ. The word righteousness can sound unfamiliar, especially outside church conversations, but at its heart is the idea of being in a right relationship with God. It speaks of standing before Him with the assurance that we have been welcomed and forgiven.
The remarkable part is how this becomes possible. At the cross, Jesus willingly carried the weight of human sin. God's justice and love meet in His sacrifice, revealing both the seriousness of sin and the depth of His desire to restore us. Paul tells us that God freely makes people right with Himself through Jesus, whose death and resurrection have opened the way to new life.
We can spend years trying to establish our worth through the things we accomplish, or allowing our failures to determine what we believe about ourselves. Our confidence can rest in what Jesus has accomplished through His death and resurrection. His grace reaches the person who feels certain of their goodness and the person who wonders if they have any goodness left to offer. Both are invited to trust Him.
Learning to Look Toward Jesus
During His conversation with Nicodemus, Jesus brought up a story from Israel's history that Nicodemus would have known well.
In Numbers 21, the Israelites were suffering after poisonous snakes had spread through their camp. When the people acknowledged their sin and cried out for help, God instructed Moses to make a bronze serpent and lift it on a pole. Those who had been bitten could look toward the bronze serpent and receive the healing God had provided.
It was an unusual instruction, and the simplicity of it is striking. The people were suffering, and God had provided a way for them to receive life. Their response was to trust what He had given them.
Jesus connected that ancient story to what would happen at the cross. Just as Moses lifted the serpent in the wilderness, the Son of Man would be lifted up so that everyone who believed in Him could receive eternal life.
Nicodemus had spent his life studying the Scriptures, and now the One those Scriptures pointed toward was sitting in front of him. Jesus was inviting him to see the familiar story through new eyes, to recognize that the life he needed would come through the Son God had sent.
It's possible to know a great deal about Jesus and yet struggle to trust Him with the deepest parts of our lives. We can understand forgiveness and grace while continuing to carry guilt as though it belongs to us forever. We can believe in God's love and quietly wonder how that same love could reach the parts of our own story we find difficult to accept. Even those places can be brought to Jesus, trusting that His grace is sufficient for everything we carry.
His forgiveness allows us to acknowledge our failures with honesty. His grace gives us courage to release the need to prove ourselves. And as we learn to trust Him, the Holy Spirit begins forming a life that reflects the love and character of Jesus.
A Life That Begins With Grace
John's Gospel gives us a few glimpses of Nicodemus after that first conversation. Later, he speaks up when other religious leaders question Jesus. Following the crucifixion, he appears again, helping prepare Jesus' body for burial.
We aren't told everything that happened within Nicodemus during those years. Yet something about his journey is worth noticing. The man who first approached Jesus at night eventually stepped forward publicly to honour Him after His death.
We don't need to speculate about what Nicodemus was thinking. His story already gives us a glimpse of how faith can grow as someone comes to know Jesus. And that same possibility remains open to anyone who is learning to trust Him, wherever they are in their journey.
Paul brings us back to the same truth in Romans 3. God has made a way for us to be right with Him through Jesus. We can come with our questions, our history, our accomplishments, and the parts of ourselves we find difficult to understand. We can acknowledge where we have wandered and receive the forgiveness Christ has made possible.
The cross also changes how we see one another. When we recognize our shared dependence on God's grace, comparison begins to lose its hold. We become people who can offer compassion because we know how much compassion we have received. We can welcome others with humility, remembering that every person stands before God with the same need for His mercy.
As you consider your own relationship with God, what have you been trusting to make you right with Him? Are there places where you continue trying to prove your worth, or parts of your story that make receiving His forgiveness difficult?
His grace is already extended to you, and through faith in Him, a new life is possible.
The life He spoke about with Nicodemus is the same life Paul describes in Romans. It begins with God's grace, received through faith in Jesus, and continues as we learn to live in the freedom His sacrifice has opened to us.
Look to Jesus and live.

One Righteousness
Join us as Colby Lidstone shares how Romans 3:21–31 reveals our shared need for God's grace and how we are made right with Him through faith in Jesus. What are we trusting to make us acceptable before God? Our goodness, our faithfulness, our knowledge of Scripture? Or have past mistakes left us wondering if God could ever welcome us?
Paul brings everyone to the same place. We have all sinned, and none of us can earn our way into God's acceptance. Then come two remarkable words: "But now." God has provided a way for us to be made right with Him through Jesus Christ. Colby connects Paul's teaching with the story of Nicodemus in John 3, a respected religious teacher who came to Jesus with questions. Despite everything he knew, Nicodemus needed the new life that only God could give.
The invitation reaches each of us. We can release our confidence in personal achievements, bring our failures into the open, and come to Jesus with empty hands. Through His sacrifice on the cross, we receive forgiveness, and through the Holy Spirit, we receive new life. The ground is level before God, and His grace welcomes everyone who places their faith in Jesus.
📖 In This Video, We Chat About:
- Why Romans 3 teaches that everyone shares the same need for God's grace
- What the words "But now" reveal about God's plan to make us right with Him
- How the story of Nicodemus helps us understand faith and being born again
- What it means to stop relying on our goodness or hiding behind our failures and trust Jesus
🙏 Join us on this journey as we learn to follow Jesus in our everyday lives. If you're looking to deepen your Christian faith, understand Scripture, or find answers to questions about God, this message offers an opportunity to consider the grace and new life Jesus invites us to receive.
- Uncover how Jesus makes us right with God through His sacrifice on the cross and why salvation is received through faith.
- Recognize the ways we rely on our achievements, religious knowledge, or personal goodness, and how our past failures can keep us from approaching God.
- Learn what Jesus taught Nicodemus about being born again and receiving new life through the Holy Spirit.
💡 Highlights of the Sermon:
- God's law reveals our need for forgiveness, and Jesus provides the way for us to be made right with God.
- Everyone stands on level ground before God, equally in need of His grace, regardless of their background or past.
- Faith invites us to come to Jesus with empty hands, receive His forgiveness, and follow Him into new life through the Holy Spirit.
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